Hook Asked: Ladies, would you ever dress like this in front of your brother?

I am 23 years old male and i share an apartment with my 19 year old sister. We go to the same university in california and in order to save money our parents put us up together. Growing up my sister and i were like best friends. We hung out with the same social circle, listened to the same music, had the same interests ect and now even we go to the same school. Well over the last year she has been living with me she has started wearing less and less clothes around the house. At first at home after she came home she'd just put on sweats or baggy pjs and lounge in that but over time she began wearing tight pants, then it was small shorts, then small tight shorts, and now she always wears shorts were half her butt hangs out, or shorts so tight she gets a "camel toe' She has always been an athlete so she is in great shape so i understand wanting to show off but in front of me seems weird. She has even noticed me glance down at her butt or cleavage and said, "enjoying the view" so i do not know what to do. My question for the ladies is, is this normal for girls to dress like this at home? would you or have you ever dressed like that in front of your brother? and what would you say if you noticed your brother looking?

Adam Asked: Does she have feelings for me girls only?

On oct 7,2011 left at my ex girlfriend grandma's house were she is staying a teddy bear with my voice on it saying happy birthday I miss you and i'm sorry. i made for her and a cd and flowers and a note saying im sorry. The next day her aunt came over and started yelling at me saying leave her alone she doesn't want anything to do with you. or they will go to the cops so i told her i will leave her alone. the next day after her aunt yelled at me. When i got home someone bought the flowers i gave her back and threw them all over my deck but they didn't bring the cd or teddy bear back and the card i got her, p.s my ex is 26 and i'm 25. she hasn't talked to me, blocked me on msn and changed her phone number for march 2011 but feb 2011 ago her step dad tried to rape her and told her that he wanted to be sex buddies and that he fault that way for awhile and she called me first out of her family and her ex boyfriend who she is going back out with now.Her ex lives out west and after the rape she stay with him for 6months then moved back with her grandma's. but 2 weeks after that we got in a fight and i said some really mean things out of angry to her. I said she is just like her mom and she hates her mom i said that she is a s lut and that her son is going to hate her just like how she hates her mom. the fight i left stuff at her house too and that's the first time they told me to stop. why wouldn't they bring the teddy bear and cd back only the flowers? could they be keeping the teddy bear and cd and card because if i do bother her again they will take all that to the cops or really why would they keep that and only bring the flowers back? do you think my ex keep the teddy bear and cd because she still has feelings for me and she just needs time and space? Do you think she still thinks about me? P.s her aunt and my dad are friends they grew up together and are still friends.
Before her step dad tried to rape her we were already broken up for a year.
I don't know if she is gone back out west to be with her ex again or what.

Megraptor Asked: I do not like my brother’s girlfriend. What can I do?

I do not like my brother's girlfriend… or maybe ex girlfriend. Each day is different. I have many reasons… The main one is is the only time I have seen my brother cry was because of her. The relationship is not healthy for him, because she drinks a lot and cheats on him with her ex and other guys. She has also physical abused him. One night he came home with cuts, bruises, and a ripped shirt. He told us that it was from her when she was drunk. She would not take any of the blame for it, and said it was his fault. He is so attached to her, but I can tell it will lead to no good. I grew up with an alcoholic father, and I have watched my mother go through all the pain. My brother is 29, the girlfriend is 22, and I'm 19. She works for my father's oil company, so she is well liked in my house.
Meanwhile, my family isn't such a fan of my boyfriend. He's 24, has a good job at the local oil refinery, has a car, and treats me way better than most people have. Why they do not like him, I do not know. Maybe because he works for a competitor of my dad (My dad also has a very small plant to process hydrocarbons- mostly natural gas, while the refinery is much much bigger and does both oil and gas), if they don't like his affection, or if it is something else. Yes, I have slept with him many times, but he is my first boyfriend, and my first consensual partner. I figured I could be like the girls at college and get drunk and sleep with random guys, or I could find myself a nice guy who can help me through the rough times I've been through and I'm going to encounter. I obviously chose the later.
But I am rather worried about my brother. I do not want to see him in a relationship that is similar to my mother's the rest of his life. I also want my parents to like my boyfriend, but they seem to not really want him around. What should I do?

Micheal Asked: Am i being used by this girl?

Ok I've been with this girl almost 5 months now and she hasn't gotten me a single gift of any kind. She has 2 kids and no job but she gets $500 a month for child support. But she lives with her mom & doesn't pay any bills except phone bill (phone I bought her) and I've spent so much money on her its ridiculous,I buy her gifts I buy her 2 girls toys,food etc..But the thing that makes me think she's using me is her brother always wants her to take him 2 and from his friends house and they live pretty far from town. Well she will not ask him for gas money under no circumstances,says she's embarrassed and he's her brother. But she doesn't have a problem asking me,and I put gas in her car only for her brother to run it all out driving him around. Get this,she picks him up from work for lunch & takes him all the way home just so he can get high! And his job is 10miles from his house! Then she takes him back! Wtf?

Alia Asked: Do u think this Gemini guy like me or is this just what Gemini guys do?

Well I haven't talked to him face to face but he talks to me on facebook but at the same time he is kind of a manwhore he flirts with a lot of girls but it seems like now no girls r giving him attention….i spoke to him a couple of time. Today I was walking and he was there playing basketball…and when I got home he messaged me on facebook…I just dnt kno if he likes me or not because he hasn't asked me out but he speaks to me on facebook…Do geminis need to ask u questions before trying to get with u? And every time I speak to him he says he's always bored…what can I talk to him about that's not so boring? Do I have a chance? I mean he does flirt alot but I think I'm like the only one who dosent mind talkin to him even though he can be a little bit perverted

Jiordan Asked: Have question about parenting, ONLY parents of teenagers (13-16) answer. HELP?

So i am not a parent, but i am a daughter. Im 14, living with my dad (dont really like him, he left the country) and hes such an a**. I know i shouldnt say that but its so true. Why dont parents let you express yourself? Do u guys want us to hate our lifes? I love animals, and i want to work with exotic animals when im older , actually i would love to now. And my dad dosnt support that. I wear makeup( not alot but more then most girls) and he always gives me problems about it. I want to do so much more then just sit at home all day, what can i do to change how he acts?

Adam Asked: Question for you girls please read all?

On oct 7 left at my ex's grandma's house were she is staying a teddy bear with my voice on it saying happy birthday I miss you and i'm sorry. i made for her and a cd and flowers and a note saying im sorry. The next day her aunt came over and strated yelling at me saying leave her alone she doesn't want anything to do with you. or they will goto the cops so i told her i will leave her alone. the next day after her aunt yelled at me. When i got home someone bought the flowers i gave her back and threw them all over my deck but they didn't bring the cd or teddy bear back and the card i got her, p.s my ex is 26 and i'm 25. she hasn't talked to me, blocked me on msn and changed her phone number for 8months. but 9months ago her step dad tryed to rape her and she called me first out of her family and her ex boyfriend who she is going back out with now.Her ex lives out west and after the rape she stay with him for 6months then moved back with her grandma's. but 2 weeks after that we got in a fight and i said some really mean things out of angry to her. I said she is just like her mom and she hates her mom i said that she is a s lut and that her son is going to hate her just like how she hates her mom. after the fight i left stuff at her house too and thats the first time they told me to stop. why wouldn't they bring the teddy bear and cd back only the flowers? could they be keeping the teddybear and cd and card because if i do bother her again they will take all that to the cops or really why would they keep that and only bring the flowers back? do you think my ex keep the teddybear and cd because she still has feelings for me and she just needs time and space? Do you think she still thinks about me? P.s her aunt and my dad are friends they grew up together and are still friends

Kaleb Asked: girl help please i really like this girl?

so basically met this girl at a party then the following weekend invited her to a Halloween party which ended early i then walked her and her friend back to their dorm and they said "so we decided ur the biggest sweetheart we have ever met" and then they wanted me to hang out and go to parties the next day so i said okay then when i got back the girl was texting me saying thank you so much i had so much fun u are such a sweetheart then the next day we never went to parties together cuz she went with girls from her sorority but she was texting me throughout the night and i decided to go to bed early then she texted me while i was asleep wanting me to come get her and walk her home but i never woke up to do this… so basically we are not allowed to drink this week or hang out with girls because we are getting initiated into our fraternity this weekend so what i want to know is does it sound like this girl is into me should i continue to try and text her on and off during the week or what? and i might not get to hang with her til possibly saturday night if at all and i want to invite her to a formal next week as my date should i just ask her through text or what? please give feedback

Aristotle Asked: it was not love, but what was this?

I've only had 1 girlfriend in my life so far and when i was around her i felt uneasy all the time. I always felt like i needed to impress her and it was hard to be myself around her. I always feel like this around people especially girls but then i met this girl. i thought she was attractive but i didn't try hard to impress her, and everyday for a month i saw this girl for 3 hours every morning. at first i pretended to like her because i thought we would do it. she would bring cookies she made from home and give them to me and ask me if i liked them, id say yes and truthfully they really were not bad. There was a time when i could have had sex with her but i decided not to. But the point i am trying to make is that around this girl i felt normal, i could be myself and i was happy around her. she was a little weird but i liked that a lot about her. Anyway. I doubt i was in love with her but its been a year since i last saw her and sometimes i still think about her. Was she just a normal girl that i liked? or was this something more?

Mrs Flowerpot Asked: Help with wedding speech?

Can you please help and comment on my speech. Anything will be fine. I am not a gusher and want to keep it simple.

Thank you my lovely husband (pause)
Id like to mention a few other people today who have also helped out Liz, thanks for making my pretty headpiece, Ian, thanks for risking your life to get one of the wraps to me, I really appreciate it. For further details please see Ian. Valentina, thank you so much for hosting the kitchen tea and allowing my family and friends loose in your home. I think the girls would agree it was a fun afternoon. Maz, thanks for all your help, support, humour and patience over the last few months and agreeing to be my matron of honour. I know we had some frantic mobile conversations, toward the end but I think everything has worked out really well so far today and Im having a great time. Id also like to acknowledge the Preuss family. From the very first meeting I was warmly welcomed and accepted by them and its comforting to know that those family members are there. I also want to thank Mum for her help and support today and thank both her and Dad for teaching me honesty, integrity and good judgement, especially in finding the right kind of husband. When I first met Gary he owned a 1998 Ford panel van. It smelt like an old lunchbox and blew smoke as we rattled around the city. But it was sturdy, strong and reliable. Just like my new husband (apart from the lunchbox thing and blowing smoke). I know the road may not always be smooth, but with you at the wheel I will always feel safe.